Love is Patient, Love is Kind.

Hello my babies. So the past couple days I've been listening to Macklemore's "Same Love" non-stop. I kid you not, by the end of the week, I'll probably have racked up at least 100 views at the end of the week. Now, the past couple of weeks I've been really focused on Gay Rights and LGBT activities. I have ALWAYS literally from the day I was born I felt I was a supporter. I never knew any different. I was raised with a gay uncle who I am and always have been close with. The past couple years I have become insanely close with him. Now, especially with all these new college experiences and decisions, I almost always text my uncle instead of my mom because I feel he gives me answers that allow me to have fun but be safe. Anyway, going to an art school, you find a lot of.... creative..people... That being said, coming to Pittsburgh a single and somewhat ready to mingle gal, I had some trouble finding a, how shall I say it... "normal" guy.  But I did find one. Oh he was different alright but I liked him. He was older, much older than I'm used to but he was still a freshman. The whole thing lasted for about a week but still it was a little fling I needed to get out of my system. I was a little bummed but you can't hide from differences. *Sidenote... I totes feel like Carrie Bradshaw right now, writing about my love life, hehehe. Anyway, after all is said and done, he was different than any other guy I have ever dated and it opened my eyes. People are so different and you never really know who you are until something happens to you personally. So I ask that you don't judge anyone until you really know what they're like. You might feel a little off about someone but that's because you don't know them. I still really like the guy I was seeing but you have to patient and you can't force things. So if things end, they end. Don't make it ugly or rude. Love is kind. Don't try to force someone into something they don't want. Love is patient. And on the note of people being different, back to me always being a supporter of Gay Rights, I met my new GBF, (Gay Best Friend)!! Every girl needs a good gay man in her life. Mine is named Colin. He's a photography major at the Art Institute. He is also my official assistant for Fashion Week. This boy is my love. I mean like, ugh baby I luh you. He's so precious. Even though he's like, 3 years older than me, I still call him my baby. Best part about Colin? He just started his own blog! So go, go, go, my babies! Go follow his blog, Confessions of an All American Faggot at AllAmericanFaggot.blogspot.com! His blog is about what's it's really like to be a gay man in today's society. (along with all of our college adventures!) So now go out and have fun with your life but don't forget, don't judge. You never know what people are saying about you, so why should you talk about them?

Xx Caitlyn